I need to hear your voice not your feel your fists

I grew up with the belief that we as women nag. The nag word is greatly associated with women. Men would say so openly with great distaste "she likes nagging'. Often the case in a 'nagging' session the man gender would likely walk away or worse beat the partner to shut up. Maybe that is why we are where we are. When a women spoke, no matter the importance it was and is received as nagging. Hence it was spoken by and talked about by men in their social gatherings as an irritate and unattractive part of a women. It was not looked at as a conversation.Let us look at this 'nagging' word closely. Is she really nagging or is she trying to get information across.